Couples and Sexuality – Seven Ways to Start Having a Better Sex Life Tonight

Are you ready for some fireworks this Fourth of July, or has your sizzle fizzled? Maybe you are looking for ways to jump-start your desire, set things on fire again with you and your partner? A little planning can go a long way in and out of the bedroom. Here are some sexy success tips to help you have some hot fun in the summertime starting tonight!

1. Take a dip to heat things up for summer: Make out in the pool, hot tub, or at the beach in the ocean. Sensual kissing in the sunlight or by moonlight can really get both of you in the mood for love!

2. Try some different positions in bed. If you find yourself on top most of the time, why not turn things around? Have your partner ride you for a change. Giddy up!

3. Fantasy Role Play: Try some light bondage with silk scarves. Let your lover tie you and tease you, or you do the tying. Be sure to negotiate everything up front.

4. Use safe words for stop such as “red light” and go such as “green light” to let each other know what you really enjoy and don’t enjoy.

5. Have a fondue party for two. Feed each other melted chocolate in a fondue pot. Feed each other berries and bananas dipped in the chocolate, or have fun dripping the chocolate and licking it off one another. Then take your party to the couch or bedroom

6. Try Doing a striptease dance. Put on sexy music and dance. Take a long time lingering, removing each piece of clothing slowly. Tell your lover to watch or let them touch you as you dance. This can drive both of you wild with anticipation.

7. Make some noise while making love. Making sounds, calling your love’s name, can be a big turn-on (as long as it’s the right name!)

Most of all have fun. Be playful. Be adventurous. Try something new that you always wanted to. As long as you both agree to explore, you might find a new and fabulous secret that you both share!

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