If you want to know how to get an ex husband back, this will show that you still hold feelings for your husband and a passion for your relationship. Here are some ways to help you improve yourself and win back the heart of the man you love.
Your marriage may be feeling the lack of emotions but as long as you are still able to maintain contact with your husband, he would still have feelings for you too. Males tend to have difficulties putting thoughts and feelings into words, so when things go wrong or he becomes uncomfortable with the relationship, he may not know how to word his thoughts and feelings. Men tend to take action more than talk, so the decision to break up might have been because he does not know another way to go about solving the problems you two are facing. You should try to understand your husband from his point of view.
When you and your husband began dating, you two were doing your best to impress each other and be the best you can in your attitude, personality, looks, actions, etc. When you two came together, you were trying to prioritize each other in your lives, which would have made both of you feel like you are on top of the world. This is one of the best feelings both of you can have, and your husband would have enjoyed those times as well. This highly romantic period might have become the benchmark he set for the relationship.
Thus, you might say that men go about a relationship based on feelings. Knowing what your husband think and how your husband feels would help you understand what is the best course of action. In explanation, your husband enjoyed being in a relationship with you. It is unfortunate that things have taken a change, which reduced those feelings of love. Bring those feelings back and you would be able to bring out the love in him again.
After knowing what your husband thinks and how he feels, you need to do the same and express your own thoughts and feelings. Let your husband know that you too enjoyed being in a relationship with him, how you felt the love, joy, intimacy and confidence while together. Let him know that you would like to continue feeling that same experience again and want to get back into a relationship. Be sure to let your husband voice his opinions about this issue as well. Let him know what kind of plans you have for amending your past mistakes and improving your relationship. And if you want a certain appreciation from your husband, be sure to show the same feelings towards him too.
Getting back into a relationship with a man may require you as the wife to initiate and take actions first. Putting your pride before you and being stubborn about men needing to do the pleasing only will not help the situation and will definitely not help you win back the heart of the man you love.